March 12, 2017 | John 3:1-17 | Lent 2
So, it’s been about ten days since I unplugged from social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, I Snapchat about once every 4 months so that doesn’t count). Already, I feel a difference. This social media fast(SMF) has been good for my soul, akin to the detox benefits of a juice cleanse on one’s body. I do not feel cantankerous because I have not been inundated with
slanted viewpoints,
fake news,
alternative facts,
combative opinions,
snarky memes,
and the like.
Even seeing less of the ubiquitous “angry face” has lowered my blood pressure.
*On a side note, I hope FB replaces the thumbs up with a .*
I did not realize how much of an impact all the negativity was having on my personal outlook. Now, when I click onto a news story – whether it is good or bad, pro or anti Trump administration, it matters not – I am able to read the piece in its entirety without the echo chamber effect that social media tends to add.
*second side note: I’ve been watching a lot of Korean news lately and have you noticed how Hangook 5-0 LOVES the perp walk? No matter how “westernized” South Korea becomes, the shame culture will always be off the charts. *
But what my SMF has done most of all is to help me realize that the enemy is not “out there.” I removed SM for Lent thinking that the voluminous, venomous, vexatious online volleys were adversely affecting my life. They were.
At the same time, whether I wanted to admit it or not, I was becoming the very thing I loathed seeing on SM: impulsive, reactionary, inflammatory, impatient, unable to speak (write) the truth in love, etc. The following status update from January 28 is a clear case in point. I wrote this in haste. Granted, for the most part, I still stand behind most of what I wrote but if I were to change one thing, it would be the delivery of these thoughts:
Evidently, I’ve been reading John 3:16 wrong my entire life. Replace ‘world’ with ‘Christians’ & ‘whoever’ with ‘Christians’ ~ I’m kinda new to the realm of snarky banter so bear with me…..
But honestly, #Americafirst makes for terrible theology.
Wake up, sleepy disciples, the hour has come to unashamedly put #Jesusfirst and that is best embodied by a Church who will put Muslim refugees first, the undocumented first, women first, the unborn first, the marginalized first, the LGBTQ first, the least and lost first.
On a side note, Honolulu probably cannot become a sanctuary city because of our prohibitive cost of living but I wonder if we can still mobilize and make our voices heard. To my friends and family who support the Muslim ban, I still love you. But you’re wrong.
Ban something else…..like AR-15s and Uzi 9 millimeters – saying that with Arnold’s accent will take you back to the original (& BEST) Terminator. Xoxo.
I began this post by referencing the most famous Bible passage of all time – John 3:16. I referenced that verse in reaction to some Christians who supported the (first) travel ban. Like Franklin Graham. Or these friends.
But looking back now, I fully acknowledge my lack of grace by painting this to be a clear black & white issue. I’ll be honest and say that I’ve had some very mean thoughts about Mr. Graham, simply because I disagree with his sound bites (I still disagree with him, by the way). But I have come to realize that to characterize him in the absolute worst picture imaginable is not my job. His org actually does a lot of good (read the latter half of his fb statement. I don’t know why I glossed over that in my first run through).
And it just so happens that this Sunday’s Gospel text from the RCL is John 3:1-17. Check out John 3:16 like you’ve never seen before:
Jesus say, “God wen get so plenny love an aloha fo da peopo inside da world, dat he wen send me, his one an ony Boy, so dat everybody dat trus me no get cut off from God, but get da kine life dat stay to da max foeva.”. – John 3:16 from Da Jesus Book (Hawaiian pidgin)
Brothers and sisters, wake up. God so loves THIS WORLD. What did God’s love look like?
God gave freely.
God gave His best.
And if we are sons and daughters of God, what is our call to action in a time like this?
Church, in order to love this world – especially the regions mentioned above, troubled regions like Yemen, Nigeria, Somalia, & South Sudan – would you be willing to give freely? Would you give your best?
“let’s not just talk about love; let’s practice real love. This is the only way we’ll know we’re living truly, living in God’s reality. It’s also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it. For God is greater than our worried hearts and knows more about us than we do ourselves.” – One John Three Eighteen